There are two levels of contacting a member – Expressing Interest (for FREE) and Writing personalized messages (for Premium Members). To contact members, you need to be logged in.

• How to Express Interest:
   This is a FREE feature available to all members
   On any profile that you like, click on 'Express Interest' option next to the space for photograph or    scroll to the end of the matrimonials profile.
   Click the 'Express Interest' button.
   An email will be sent to that member telling them of your interest.

• How to write personalized messages:
   On any profile that you like, write upto 250-character personalized message.
   Click on the Communicate section. Click on the Compose link on the left menu to write to any    member of ShaadiKaroge.com provided you both have accepted each other.
   Likewise, when other members like your matrimonial profile they can express interest and write    to you using similar procedure.

NOTE:
• You cannot express interest in more than 50 members in a day.
• ShaadiKaroge.com may restrict the free expressing interest feature in cases which     ShaadiKaroge.com deems appropriate in its sole discretion.

Shaadi Karoge allows you to express interest in potential partners for FREE. You can do this simply by using the 'Express Interest' button found at the top of each profile. This will let the member know that you are interested in them.

However, you will need to be a Premium Member to write personal messages to other members. Your chances of getting a response increase 20 times, if you write personalized messages. So we recommend that you sign up for a premium membership. Compare ShaadiKaroge.com membership options

You may Accept or Decline members depending on whether you like the profile of member who express interest in you. By accepting members you agree to communicate with them, and by declining members you refuse to communicate with them.

In some cases, you may have second thoughts after expressing interest in a member and getting accepted. Here, you can Cancel interest with the member and stop all further communication. Just in case you have third thoughts (!), you can express interest in the member all over again.

It's really simple.
• Login to your My Shaadi account.
• Under "My Shaadi " , click "Members awating response ".
• You will see a list of matrimonial profiles of members who expressed interest in you.
• Click on Accpet/ Decline/ Cancel/ Delete to accept or reject the request.

It's really simple.
• Login to your My Shaadi account.
• Under "Others Menu " , click "Members who contacted Me ".
• You will see a list of matrimonial profiles of members who expressed interest in you.
• Click on Decline to reject the request.

Please follow instruction given below:
• Login to your My Shaadi account.
• Under "Others Menu " , click "Members who contacted Me ".
• You will see a list of matrimonial profiles of members who expressed interest in you.
• Click on Accept to accept the request.

Yes, you can cancel interest with such a member and stop receiving messages.